Tuesday, May 15, 2018

Fish Friday


     
 In the first century, Jews fasted on Mondays and Thursdays.    The original Christians were all Jewish,  and were accustomed to fasting as a spiritual discipline. Most often that fast took the form of avoiding meat in the diet. In those days, meat was a luxury food.  Because most people had to buy meat in the market back then, it was expensive.  But anyone could grow vegetables or forage for them, and anyone could catch a fish in a lake or a stream. So the poor could still eat without much money.   Meat was known as a rich man's food, and fish was thought of as poor people's food. That is why the most common form of fasting was to omit meat with the exception of fish.
Although not done for religious reasons, our family nearly always eats fish on Friday.  In Arkansas, our fish came to us without monetary cost, we simply caught it in the Little Red River.  Our freezer always overflowed with the catch of the weekend.  Now that we are city-folk in PA, we must buy our fish at the market.  Not only do we not have time to fish, the fish in the local rivers are fraught with mercury and toxins. 
And so, this evening, we sat in our lawn chairs and watched Blaine and the neighborhood children catch fireflies, waiting for the fish to cook. 





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Mike grilled Rosemary Haddock
and Fried Green Tomatoes, with "Boardwalk" Fries 


Historically, first century Christians did resume fasting
after Jesus’ Ascension,
 moving the fasts to Wednesday
(the day of the betrayal)
and Friday
(the day of the crucifixion).


Nothing in the Bible actually requires us to fast,
however,
 Jesus did assume that believers were fasting. 
"When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do,
for they disfigure their faces to show men they are fasting... " 
Mt. 6:16

"Then John’s disciples came and asked him,
'How is it that we and the Pharisees fast often,
but your disciples do not fast?”

Jesus answered,
'How can the guests of the bridegroom mourn while he is with them?
The time will come when the bridegroom will be taken from them;
 then they will fast."

-Matthew 9; 14-15

Fasting from Sundown on Tuesday to sundown
on Wednesday
is something the I do on occasion,
although I hope no one can tell I am fasting. 

Sunday, March 25, 2018

Living Beautifully Every Day

The last snow of the Season, 2014 March

It is so important to incorporate beauty and love into our lives;  so that even the most mundane of chores is in some small way elevated and validated as a daily ritual of beauty.     

                Our home is vibrantly lived in, and loved.

 We like to think we live "Romantically" here in
Blue Willow Cottage.




To me, romantic living is thoughtful, beautiful, and deliberate.




If one decides to embrace it, all days will be truly LIVED, not just "passed."

Sunday, February 4, 2018

Dry Leaves...



After a particularly challenging day yesterday, my son,

noticing my less than cheery demeanor, took me by the hand,

leading me to the TV.   He pointed out the little quote I

had pasted on the front 3 years ago.  This is what it said:


     "In every person who
comes near you look for what is
good and strong,
honor that, try to imitate it
and your
faults will drop off
like dry leaves
when their time comes."
- John Ruskin

Wednesday, November 29, 2017

A Well Watered Garden...

I don't like to rush into December too quickly without saying a proper farewell to November.








I do love Christmas, but Autumn is one of my favorite seasons, so I let my Harvest Decor linger a bit longer than most people,

 allowing the rush of reds and greens of the Winter Holiday to wait a few days.

Tonight we have special out of town guests coming for dinner.




  I set my table last night and most of the food is done ahead,
 or in the Crockpot because I wanted to be able to visit with them, and not feel the slightest bit stressed about serving a nice, healthy and flavorful meal.




Here is a promise to ponder tonight:

"If you get rid of unfair practices, quit blaming victims, quit gossiping about other people's sins,
 If you are generous with the hungry and start giving yourselves to the down-and-out, Your lives will begin to glow in the darkness,
Your shadowed lives will be bathed in sunlight.

I will always show you where to go. I'll give you a full life in the emptiest of places—
firm muscles, strong bones.

You'll be like a well-watered garden, a gurgling spring that never runs dry.

You'll use the old rubble of past lives to build anew, rebuild the foundations from out of your past.

You'll be known as those who can fix anything, restore old ruins, rebuild and renovate, make the community livable again." 

Isaiah 58: 9-12 The Message

Friday, October 27, 2017

This is how we know what love is: Playing Headbands with Pop Pop

B begged us for "Family Night" with Grandma and Pop Pop.  I knew it was a slim chance since Pop is post op from major back surgery and not exactly in the lap of comfort these days, but we asked anyway.  Mike fired up the grill, I bought New York Strips, (it has to be the first time in years-- with my Beans and Rice Mentality).   It was worth every cent... to see my father play BINGO and "Headbands" with all of us-- close to miraculous.  Miracles do happen!  Only my cousins and closest friends would know what this truly means to me... to have my Dad playing board games with us on a Friday Night! 


"Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us... " Ephesians 3: 20

Saturday, September 30, 2017

"My Mommer Tips" for Loving a Child... Part Two

Think about the "cost" of not praying or reading God's Word with your children daily.
Really calculate the "Cost."
 Then calculate the short amount of time it would cost you
 to add this essential instruction to your day with them.

If you're always racing to practices and appointments,
pray out loud together in your vehicle.  
Play worship music & sing with them.

Pray for your children, and pray over them.

We can whisper a prayer that they will never hear,
but when we embrace them before heading out the door,
quickly praying God's Peace
and Protection
aloud over their little heads,
 they'll always know
 their Mother believed
in God's power,
 and in the power of Prayer!